Lessons

Daily reflections on A Course in Miracles for trauma care and spiritual growth.

A Course in Miracles · Lesson 307

Conflicting Wishes Cannot Be My Will

A gentle reflection for trauma care and spiritual growth

Beneath fear's competing wishes, the Will we share with God remains whole and at peace.

Today's Teaching

Lesson 307 teaches that conflicting wishes cannot be our true Will. The ego offers substitutes for peace: control, approval, condemnation, and the fantasy that separation will keep us safe—of having needs that God cannot meet. These wishes conflict because each asks us to be something other than the Love God created. The God-created Self has one Will with its Source: to know and extend Love.

Not every thought, feeling, or impulse expresses God's Will. Yet beneath the divided mind, our deepest Will has never opposed Him. Conflict is not our identity; it shows that fear and Love are being asked to guide the same decision.

The Holy Spirit does not coerce us. He reveals that only a choice aligned with truth, wholeness, and Love can bring lasting peace.

In ↑BEing Healing, forgiveness is spiritual recognition: releasing the ego's competing purposes so the God-created soul is remembered as one with its Source. We bring conflict into the Light, where fear's claim to be our true will can be gently undone.

For the Wounded Heart

Trauma can produce genuine inner conflict. Yet beneath the event, your real will and God's are one. You did not make your will; you received it, and it was made whole.

When you feel torn, that tearing is not happening in your true self—it is the ego's dream of having needs that God cannot meet.

A Simple Practice

The prayer in the lesson speaks it plainly: “Father, Your Will is mine, and only that. There is no other will for me to have.” Sitting with that line—not as a demand on yourself, but as a quiet recognition—can be the whole practice for the day.

God, beneath fear's many wishes, let me remember that Your Will and my true Will are one. Lead me toward truth, safety, forgiveness, and the peace in which conflict cannot remain.

Scripture for Reflection · KJV

ScriptureWords for Reflection
Psalm 143:10“Teach me to do thy will; for thou art my God: thy spirit is good.”
Philippians 2:13“It is God which worketh in you both to will and to do of his good pleasure.”
Romans 12:2“Be ye transformed by the renewing of your mind.”
1 John 4:21“He who loveth God love his brother also.”
Dr. Tom
Dr. Tom
↑BEing Healing · Your state of being is the key to your healing.
A Course in Miracles · Lesson 306

The Gift of Christ Is All I Seek Today

A gentle reflection for trauma care and spiritual growth

Christ gives the vision that remembers that we have never left God's Love.

Today's Teaching

Lesson 306 asks us to seek Christ's gift: a vision that looks past fear and remembers the Love, holiness, and peace of God. If we truly knew the riches of His Kingdom, we would look nowhere else—“For thine is the kingdom, and the power, and the glory, for ever. Amen.” (Matthew 6:13)

This is not a demand for a particular material outcome or a permanently pleasant emotional state. This is the gift of Christ which is the memory of who you actually are. It is an amazing truth. Christ is not external to you waiting to be reached. He is in you. What I am seeking is what I already am, only forgotten.

The apostle Paul says it in mystical terms: “Christ in you, the hope of glory” (Colossians 1:27).

In Christ's vision, the world becomes a place of mercy, care, and loving kindness because we remember that separation never changed our true relationship with God. To “forget the world I made” is to release the ego's fearful interpretation as the final truth. We return to God by remembering that we never truly went away. In ↑BEing Healing, forgiveness is spiritual recognition: seeing beyond the world fear constructed to the God-created soul that remains joined with its Source.

For the Wounded Heart

After trauma, fear's world can seem like the only world: danger everywhere, trust impossible, and the future already decided. Christ's gift does not ask anyone to forget facts, rush grief, or ignore body signals.

Coming with “empty hands” means releasing guilt and fearful certainty—not surrendering care, resources, rights, or protection.

A Simple Practice

Notice one gift the ego insists you must obtain before peace is possible: control, certainty, an apology or an approval. Hold that desire gently and say, “Holy Spirit, I come with an open mind. Help me receive Christ's gift of clear and loving vision.”

God, help me remember that I never left Your Love. Let Christ's vision release fear's final judgment without denying what happened. Guide me gently into forgiveness as I recognize the holy Identity You gave to every soul.

Scripture for Reflection · KJV

ScriptureWords for Reflection
Romans 8:39“[Nothing] shall be able to separate us from the love of God.”
John 14:27“My peace I give unto you: not as the world giveth.”
Colossians 3:12“Put on therefore … mercies, kindness, humbleness of mind, meekness, longsuffering.”
1 John 4:21“He who loveth God love his brother also.”
Dr. Tom
Dr. Tom
↑BEing Healing · Your state of being is the key to your healing.
A Course in Miracles · Lesson 305

There Is a Peace That Christ Bestows on Us

A gentle reflection for trauma care and spiritual growth

Christ's peace is not the absence of feeling; it is the presence of Love beneath every feeling.

Today's Teaching

Lesson 305 describes the peace revealed through Christ's vision: deep, quiet, undisturbable, and unlike anything the world could offer. The peace the world offers is always dependent on something external staying the way you want it. This peace does not depend upon circumstances unfolding as the ego prefers.

It is God's gift, already present beneath fear's judgments about what happened, who we are, and what the future may hold. The lesson asks us to accept this gift without judging ourselves as unworthy or incapable of receiving it. Christ's peace is received not achieved and rests in the God-created Self waiting beneath the noise of fear and grievance. In ↑BEing Healing, forgiveness is spiritual recognition: releasing condemnation so the soul's unchanged peace can enter awareness and extend through us to others.

Love, joy and peace are fruits of the Spirit in the healed heart.

For the Wounded Heart

After trauma, the body may remain in a physiological state of distress. It is difficult to generate calm in this state. Your state of Being is different than your state of mind or your state of body. Christ's peace is always present beneath grief, anger and pain in your Being. His Presence does not erase the physical wound; it prevents the wound from becoming the throne of the mind.

As we realize our identity in Christ, we become aware that our state of Being is the key to our healing. There is nothing we can't overcome. With God all things are possible.

A Simple Practice

The practice is realizing, “I do not have to manufacture peace. Christ's peace is given me now.” Name one judgment against yourself and offer it to the Holy Spirit. Ask, “What would love do now and where would peace lead me today?”

God, help me receive the peace of Christ without judging my feelings or my pace of healing. Let this peace overcome my grief, anger and pain and free me from condemnation so Your Love may extend through me to every soul.

Scripture for Reflection · KJV

ScriptureWords for Reflection
John 14:27“Peace I leave with you, my peace I give unto you: not as the world giveth.”
Philippians 4:7“The peace of God, which passeth all understanding.”
Philippians 4:13“I can do all things through Christ which strengtheneth me.”
Matthew 19:26“With men this is impossible; but with God all things are possible.”

Today I receive Christ's peace. I will remain in this state of higher ↑BEing and not shame my body for what it feels.

Dr. Tom
Dr. Tom
↑BEing Healing · Your state of being is the key to your healing.
A Course in Miracles · Lesson 304

Let Not My World Obscure the Sight of Christ

A gentle reflection for trauma care and spiritual growth

Christ's vision sees beyond fear's picture without denying what happened.

Today's Teaching

Lesson 304 teaches that the world we impose upon perception can obscure the sight of Christ. “Perception is a mirror, not a fact” does not mean an event, injury, or danger was fabricated. It means the mind interprets what it encounters through beliefs, memories, expectations, and its present state.

When you look in a mirror you see a reflection of yourself—not your actual self—but a two-dimensional image; not the three-dimensional object. Fear may use the perceived “facts” to declare a soul ruined, guilty, threatening, or forever separated from God. Christ's vision releases that verdict.

Appearances are not the final authority on identity, meaning, or possibility.

In ↑BEing Healing, forgiveness is spiritual recognition: seeing what happened clearly while looking through fear's interpretation to the God-created soul beneath it.

For the Wounded Heart

Trauma can train perception to scan for danger and carry the past into the present. Hypervigilance, numbness, intrusive memories, and body alarms are all physiological reactions that serve a survival purpose. They are not moral failures; they deserve compassionate care. Christ's vision does not require forced optimism or mistrusting protective signals.

Seeing holiness in another person does not require trusting them or reopening contact.

A Simple Practice

Name one fact: “My body becomes tense near this person,” or “This event occurred.” Then name the conclusion fear added: “I will never be safe,” “I am broken,” or “This person has no soul.” Keep the fact and offer the conclusion to the Holy Spirit: “Help me see without denial or condemnation.”

God, open my sight. Help me distinguish facts from fear's interpretation. Let Christ's vision guide my care, boundaries, and forgiveness so I may recognize the God-created worth of every person without abandoning truth or safety.

Scripture for Reflection · KJV

ScriptureWords for Reflection
Psalm 119:18“Open thou mine eyes, that I may behold wondrous things out of thy law.”
Matthew 5:8“Blessed are the pure in heart: for they shall see God.”
Romans 12:2“Be ye transformed by the renewing of your mind.”
1 John 4:21“He who loveth God love his brother also.”

Today I will not let fear's world obscure Christ. I will name facts, question fearful meanings, and recognize God-created worth in everyone.

Dr. Tom
Dr. Tom
↑BEing Healing · Your state of being is the key to your healing.
A Course in Miracles · Lesson 303

The Holy Christ Is Born in Me Today

A gentle reflection for trauma care and spiritual growth

Christ is not born into a stranger; He awakens as the Self God created.

Today's Teaching

Lesson 303 gives a mystical and transcendent expression of an amazing truth. It's about the recognition that Christ—the Self God created, whole and sinless—is what you actually are. The birth spoken of in this lesson is not an event in time; it's a moment of remembering that what God created has never stopped being itself. It is eternal and everywhere present, infinite and unlimited. You simply welcome Christ home.

This birth does not create a new identity; it restores awareness of the Self God already created. The lesson's “evil self I made” is not the body, personality, or traumatized person. It is the ego's substitute identity—assembled from separation, fear, guilt, roles, and history—and mistaken for the whole of who we are. In ↑BEing Healing, forgiveness is spiritual recognition: seeing through the self-constructed image to the Christ-light that remains alive in every soul.

To recognize Christ in yourself is to recognize Christ equally in everyone.

For the Wounded Heart

Trauma can make the wounded self feel like our only identity. Receiving Christ does not erase history, reject the body, or demand that symptoms disappear. “It is not Christ that can be crucified” means that injury cannot destroy the God-created Self. Though many have tried crucifying themselves and others in the process, the Romans could not kill the Spirit—just as your body can be wounded without Being becoming wounded.

Forgiveness may unfold gradually while remembering the holy Identity beneath every human story.

A Simple Practice

Notice the support beneath you and breathe as gently as your body allows. Name one identity fear has made central: victim, broken, guilty, unwanted, or unloved. Say, “This may describe an experience; it does not contain my whole Being. Christ lives in me, and God's Love remains my Source.”

God, welcome Your Son in me today. Help me honor my experience without mistaking it for my whole Identity. Let Christ's Love guide my life and my recognition of the God-created worth in everyone.

Scripture for Reflection · KJV

ScriptureWords for Reflection
Galatians 4:19“Until Christ be formed in you.”
Galatians 2:20“Christ liveth in me.”
Colossians 1:27“Christ in you, the hope of glory.”
1 John 4:21“He who loveth God love his brother also.”

Today I welcome Christ within. I will shine as light and truth and let the Self God created guide my journey.

Dr. Tom
Dr. Tom
↑BEing Healing · Your state of being is the key to your healing.
A Course in Miracles · Lesson 302

Where Darkness Was I Look Upon the Light

A gentle reflection for trauma care and spiritual growth

Christ's vision does not deny darkness; it reveals the Light fear could not extinguish.

Today's Teaching

Lesson 302 welcomes Christ's vision, which changes darkness into light as fear gives way to Love. This lesson teaches that what I thought was real—the fears, the grievances, the shadow self I built to protect myself—was never real at all. The light was there the whole time, waiting to be revealed behind what I made.

Darkness is the ego's conclusion that injury proves we are separated from God, permanently damaged, guilty, or hopeless. The Light is what fear cannot alter: the God-created soul who is connected with its Source.

The body may suffer, yet Being continues to reveal its Light; the scars become glorified witnesses that Love transformed even this.

In ↑BEing Healing, forgiveness is spiritual recognition—seeing the facts clearly while letting the Holy Spirit reveal the holiness fear never destroyed.

For the Wounded Heart

After trauma, “look upon the light” can sound like pressure to be positive, stop grieving, or a “just get over it” mentality. That is not Christ's vision.

Forgiveness may unfold gradually like the sun gradually breaking through the clouds and its light nourishes life while remembering that no human act can erase the holiness God created.

A Simple Practice

The practice for today is to look at anything that feels heavy or darkly fearful and be willing to say: “This is not what is really here. What is really here is light.” That is what the Holy Spirit sees when He looks with you. Then ask, “Show me the Light that is present behind the cloud of unknowing and one safe step I can take.” Let the answer be practical.

God, open my sight to the Light that has never left me. Help me tell the truth about suffering without giving darkness authority over any soul. Let Christ's vision guide my care, forgiveness, and my journey to healing.

Scripture for Reflection · KJV

ScriptureWords for Reflection
John 1:5“The light shineth in darkness; and the darkness comprehended it not.”
Psalm 27:1“The LORD is my light and my salvation; whom shall I fear?”
Micah 7:8“When I sit in darkness, the LORD shall be a light unto me.”
1 John 4:21“He who loveth God love his brother also.”

Today I look upon the Light. I will name darkness truthfully, forgive and remember: fear cannot extinguish the holiness God placed in anyone.

Dr. Tom
Dr. Tom
↑BEing Healing · Your state of being is the key to your healing.
A Course in Miracles · Lesson 301

And God Himself Shall Wipe Away All Tears

A gentle reflection for trauma care and spiritual growth

There is no shame in our tears; God heals the judgments that keep sorrow enthroned.

Today's Teaching

Lesson 301 asks us to behold the world without condemnation and let forgiveness release our perception from distortion. The ego interprets injury as proof that we are abandoned, unloved, or trapped in a cruel world. Every sorrow, every grievance, every trace of conflict the mind has held—all of it is undone, not by your effort, but by God Himself.

You've got nothing to fix because the correction has been already given. You just have to perceive it. The Holy Spirit does not deny the event and He understands our tears; He removes fear's claim that separation and sorrow are the final truth. In ↑BEing Healing, forgiveness is spiritual recognition: seeing through the condemned world the ego made to the God-created soul and the holy world Love still reveals.

As judgment loosens, suffering no longer becomes our identity or our prophecy.

God's joy is not manufactured happiness; it is the remembrance that Love remains present and whole.

For the Wounded Heart

Tears after trauma are not spiritual failure. They may express grief, pain, love, shock, or a nervous system releasing what words cannot carry. “God shall wipe away all tears” is not pressure to suppress emotion or to just get over it. Forgiveness may unfold gradually while entrusting final judgment to God.

The end of suffering is simply what remains when the ego's story is released and the memory wiped away by God Himself.

A Simple Practice

If tears arise, let them come without judging them. Name one painful conclusion: “I am abandoned,” “I am not needed,” or “This sorrow will define my future.” Do not argue with it. Offer it instead: “Holy Spirit, help me see without condemnation. Show me what is true now.” Then choose one caring and safe next step.

God, receive every tear and heal the judgment beneath my fear. Help me see past the clouds of guilt honestly without making sorrow my identity. Let forgiveness clear my sight so I may recognize Your Love in myself, in others, and in the world You created.

Scripture for Reflection · KJV

ScriptureWords for Reflection
Revelation 21:4“God shall wipe away all tears from their eyes.”
Psalm 34:18“The LORD is nigh unto them that are of a broken heart.”
Matthew 7:1“Judge not, that ye be not judged.”
Romans 8:1“There is therefore now no condemnation.”
1 John 4:21“He who loveth God love his brother also.”

Today I let God hold my tears. I will grieve honestly, release condemnation, and ask the Holy Spirit to show me a true vision of God's world.

Dr. Tom
Dr. Tom
↑BEing Healing · Your state of being is the key to your healing.
A Course in Miracles · Lesson 300

Only an Instant Does This World Endure

A gentle reflection for trauma care and spiritual growth

The passing cloud is not the eternal sky; what happens in time cannot define timeless Being.

Today's Teaching

Lesson 300 offers two ways to understand the perception of the world. The ego points to passing joy, death, and sorrow as proof that loss must triumph. The Holy Spirit reveals that no false perception can hold us forever; it is a passing cloud before the eternally serene sky of God. Fear and separation may seem lasting, but they cannot replace Heaven or our true Identity.

The world we observe with its physicalness and apparent permanence lasts only an instant in the mind. It is hard to grasp its unreality, not because it feels so real, but because what is truly real doesn't end—and this world does. What passes cannot be ultimately what truly is. Set yourself apart from this world for a moment and remember that this instant—not the past we carry or the future we brace for—is where we meet God. The holy instant is the only time there is, and in it, our awareness of the world's temporal appearance simply dissolves into eternity.

In ↑BEing Healing, forgiveness is spiritual recognition: meeting what occurred honestly while withdrawing the claim that it has eternal authority. The body can be wounded without Being becoming wounded. God's Voice leads awareness beyond the passing instant toward eternity.

For the Wounded Heart

After trauma, an event may be over in time while the body, memory, and nervous system still carry its effects. “Only an instant” does not trivialize pain or demand quick recovery. Symptoms deserve qualified care. Forgiveness may unfold gradually and from a safe distance.

The instant can pass without the soul remaining imprisoned in fear's meaning of it.

A Simple Practice

Gently orient to the present. Name where you are, notice the support beneath you, and identify one sign that this moment differs from the painful one. Say, “That moment occurred; this moment is here. God's eternity holds me now.”

God, help me honor what happened without making it eternal. Let fear's cloud pass across the serene sky of Your Love. Guide me toward resolution in Your wise care and the remembrance of my timeless Identity in You.

Scripture for Reflection · KJV

ScriptureWords for Reflection
2 Corinthians 4:18“The things which are seen are temporal; but … not seen are eternal.”
Psalm 30:5“Weeping may endure for a night, but joy cometh in the morning.”
Isaiah 40:8“The word of our God shall stand for ever.”
Romans 8:39“[Nothing] shall be able to separate us from the love of God.”
1 John 4:21“He who loveth God love his brother also.”
Dr. Tom
Dr. Tom
↑BEing Healing · Your state of being is the key to your healing.
A Course in Miracles · Lesson 299

Eternal Holiness Abides in Me

A gentle reflection for trauma care and spiritual growth

What God created holy may be obscured from awareness, but it can never be destroyed.

Today's Teaching

Lesson 299 teaches that our holiness comes from God and remains joined with His. Holiness was placed in you at creation—nothing you have done has touched it. It is deeper than anything the ego can understand. Nothing human can understand it because it is spiritually discerned.

“But the natural man receiveth not the things of the Spirit of God: for they are foolishness unto him: neither can he know them, because they are spiritually discerned” (1 Corinthians 2:14).

Fear may cover its radiance; guilt may deny it; injury and wrongdoing may seem to contradict it. Yet none of these can alter the holy God-created soul. In ↑BEing Healing, forgiveness is spiritual recognition: seeing through the autobiographical image of wound, shame, or offense to the eternal holiness beneath it.

The soul is not made holy by perfect behavior; it is holy because its Source is holy.

Healing begins as we allow the Holy Spirit to reveal what fear could never change.

For the Wounded Heart

Trauma has a multitude of adverse effects on the body and nervous system. Honoring eternal holiness does not deny these effects or blame anyone for healing slowly.

The body can be wounded without Being becoming wounded.

Forgiveness may unfold gradually; offer it silently in your heart as we entrust God to work all things together for good.

A Simple Practice

Name one label fear has given you: broken, guilty, damaged, weak, or unlovable. Then say slowly, “This describes a fearful interpretation or an experience; it does not define my Being. Eternal holiness abides in me.” Imagine the person who wronged you. Offer only this recognition: “God created this soul; I release judgment and let God guide my response.”

God, my holiness comes from You. Let Your Spirit reveal what fear has hidden but never harmed. Help me to be willing to believe that eternal holiness abides in me.

Scripture for Reflection · KJV

ScriptureWords for Reflection
1 Peter 1:16“Be ye holy; for I am holy.”
1 Corinthians 3:16“Ye are the temple of God, and … the Spirit of God dwelleth in you.”
Colossians 3:3“Your life is hid with Christ in God.”
Romans 8:39“[Nothing] shall be able to separate us from the love of God.”
1 John 4:21“He who loveth God love his brother also.”

Today I remember the holiness God created in me. I will care for what has been wounded, release condemnation, and trust God with every soul.

Dr. Tom
Dr. Tom
↑BEing Healing · Your state of being is the key to your healing.
A Course in Miracles · Lesson 298

I Love You, Father, and I Love Your Children

A gentle reflection for trauma care and spiritual growth

To love God is to recognize His life in every soul—even when wisdom requires distance.

Today's Teaching

Lesson 298 joins love for the Father with love for His Children. We are to offer our love upward to God and outward to everyone. To love God is to love what He created. To love His creation is to love Him. Love is not a reward we give to those who earn it. It is what we are.

The ego claims to love God but is quick to condemn certain individuals and groups of His Children. The ego keeps a ledger doling out conditional love according to its preferences. This may feel natural but this is not what Godly love is. Love is not given out from a limited supply within certain conditions. It is what we are made of, underneath the fear and the grievances. Can anyone “deserve” love? If they deserve it, is it really love? No, it would be conditional then.

We Love unconditionally because that is our nature and it's God's nature. Love simply is—the way light is, not because of what it shines on, because it shines forever.

God's way becomes certain: receive Love without fear and recognize it in everyone.

For the Wounded Heart

After trauma or betrayal, “love everyone” can sound like a demand to trust everyone. It is not. Spiritual Love is not the same as affection. You don't have to like them, just love them—see them as children of God. You may recognize God-created worth from a safe distance while naming wrongdoing and protecting the vulnerable.

Christ's Love neither dehumanizes the person who caused harm nor re-endangers the wounded person.

A Simple Practice

Notice the support beneath you. Say, “Father, I receive Your Love without fear.” If a difficult person comes to mind, say, “This soul belongs to God; wisdom will determine my response.” Ask: What does Love require now? Guide me in the next step.

Father, let gratitude open me to Your Love. Help me see Your Son in every soul while knowing You are with me and certain is Your way—the wise path You place before me.

Scripture for Reflection · KJV

ScriptureWords for Reflection
Matthew 22:37–39“Thou shalt love the Lord thy God … thy neighbour as thyself.”
John 13:34“Love one another; as I have loved you.”
Romans 12:18“If it be possible … live peaceably with all men.”
1 John 4:18“There is no fear in love; but perfect love casteth out fear.”
1 John 4:21“He who loveth God love his brother also.”

Today I love God and His Children. I will receive Love without fear, tell the truth, protect life, keep wise boundaries and honor the God-created worth of everyone.

Dr. Tom
Dr. Tom
↑BEing Healing · Your state of being is the key to your healing.
A Course in Miracles · Lesson 297

Forgiveness Is the Only Gift I Give

A gentle reflection for trauma care and spiritual growth

Forgiveness does not call harm good; it denies harm the power to define any soul forever.

Today's Teaching

Lesson 297 presents salvation's simple formula: the gift we extend is the gift we receive. We for-give; pay it forward and receive God's blessing. When we offer forgiveness, the mind learns the release it truly wants. The ego treats forgiveness as a bargain earned by remorse, or as something a morally superior person grants to a guilty one. The Holy Spirit transforms it into recognition of the Christ-like nature to heal and reconcile wrongdoing.

In ↑BEing Healing, forgiveness is spiritual recognition: when we forgive, we release the image of a broken world and a broken person, and what's left is seeing through fear's image of brokenness to the God-created soul beneath the offense. The redeemed soul is seen in Christ's vision as lovingly restored in innocence that fear was hiding. As we release condemnation from another, we also release ourselves from the world of condemnation and receive the peace we have chosen to give.

For the Wounded Heart

After trauma, forgiveness can sound like pressure to feel loving before the heart is ready. Take all the time you need. Forgiveness may unfold gradually and can be offered inwardly from a safe distance.

Love and forgiveness do not require approving harm, just a willingness to forgive because they know not what they do. Releasing condemnation is a Christ-like action knowing that God has your back.

A Simple Practice

Bring one grievance gently to mind without forcing a feeling. Name the harm plainly. Then ask, “Holy Spirit, what burden can I release without surrendering truth?” Perhaps you can release the belief that another soul must remain eternally guilty, or that this event must define your future. Say, “I give the gift I want to receive: release from fear's final judgment.” Then choose the next loving step with discernment as the Spirit guides you.

God, teach me to give the forgiveness I would receive. Help me tell the truth without hatred, protect life without condemnation, and recognize the holy worth You placed in every soul.

Scripture for Reflection · KJV

ScriptureWords for Reflection
Luke 6:37“Forgive, and ye shall be forgiven.”
Ephesians 4:32“Forgiving one another, even as God … hath forgiven you.”
Colossians 3:13“Even as Christ forgave you, so also do ye.”
Romans 12:21“Be not overcome of evil, but overcome evil with good.”
1 John 4:21“He who loveth God love his brother also.”

Today I give the gift of forgiveness. I will name harm truthfully, protect life, discern with wisdom, and release fear's final judgment from every soul—including my own.

Dr. Tom
Dr. Tom
↑BEing Healing · Your state of being is the key to your healing.
A Course in Miracles · Lesson 296

The Holy Spirit Speaks Through Me Today

A gentle reflection for trauma care and spiritual growth

A voice given to Love can tell the truth, protect life, and restore dignity.

Today's Teaching

Lesson 296 asks us to offer our thoughts and voice to the Holy Spirit so God's Word may reach the world through us. Speech is not neutral: the ego uses words to accuse, defend, manipulate, or rehearse a grievance; the Holy Spirit uses the same voice for truth, peace, correction, and redemption. The heart of it is willingness, not an eloquent performance. Let the still small voice already in you be heard—by you, and through you, by whoever is listening.

We teach what we choose to learn, and words that extend Love return that lesson to the speaker. In ↑BEing Healing, forgiveness is spiritual recognition: allowing our words to name the God-created soul beneath wound, shame, or wrongdoing while refusing fear's final judgment. The voice of Love does not flatter or evade facts; it joins truth with mercy and lets God give speech its purpose.

For the Wounded Heart

Trauma may silence the voice or make speech urgent, guarded, or apologetic. Harmful people may also claim to speak for God in order to shame, coerce, or deceive. Such speech is not holy because its fruit is domination, not Love. Letting the Holy Spirit speak through you can mean saying a hard truth to someone to rouse them out of their unawareness. Saying no, naming adversity, calling out evil, all may need to be done in wisdom. Jesus turned over the tables of the moneychangers. Jesus said, “The kingdom of heaven suffereth violence, and the violent take it by force” (Matthew 11:12). But, you don't have to.

The Kingdom is yours if you are willing to perceive it correctly and release your worldly egoic opposition to it.

If you really want it, you may have to face persecution and take it by force. The Apostle Paul tells us to put on the whole armor of God (Ephesians 6).

A Simple Practice

Ask the Holy Spirit: “What would You have me do? Where would You have me go? What would You have me say, and to whom?” Let this be your prayer today. Don't be afraid to be silent either.

God, give my voice to the Holy Spirit today. Let my words tell the truth with sensitivity, protect life with compassion, and recognize the glorious potential You have placed in every soul.

Scripture for Reflection · KJV

ScriptureWords for Reflection
Ephesians 4:15“Speaking the truth in love.”
Luke 12:12“The Holy Ghost shall teach you … what ye ought to say.”
Psalm 19:14“Let the words of my mouth … be acceptable in thy sight.”
Proverbs 31:8“Open thy mouth for the dumb.”
Matthew 11:12“The kingdom of heaven suffereth violence, and the violent take it by force.”

Today I give my voice to Love. I will speak truthfully with wisdom and discernment and use my words to honor the God-created worth of everyone.

Dr. Tom
Dr. Tom
↑BEing Healing · Your state of being is the key to your healing.
A Course in Miracles · Lesson 295

The Holy Spirit Looks Through Me Today

A gentle reflection for trauma care and spiritual growth

Christ's vision sees the soul clearly without looking away from harm.

Today's Teaching

Lesson 295 asks us to let the Holy Spirit use our perception. The same eyes can serve the ego by collecting evidence of ungodly, fear, guilt, and flesh identity; or serve Love by recognizing the Holy Spirit who ensures opportunities for healing. Christ's vision does not deny physical facts; it releases the ego's claim that error and guilt are final judgments. The Spirit sees beyond what we made and finds only what God created, which is whole and innocent. We offer Him our sight and He uses it to bless everything we look upon.

In ↑BEing Healing, forgiveness is spiritual recognition: seeing through wound, shame, or wrongdoing to the God-created soul, then letting Love guide the path to healing and truth. As fear's interpretation is lifted, peace extends through us because redemption is shared. Healing is a gift of the Holy Spirit which only He makes possible.

For the Wounded Heart

Trauma can train the eyes, ears, and body to scan for danger. This vigilance is a protective reflex for the survival of the physical body and the ego. “The Holy Spirit looks through me” does not require ignoring warning signs, trusting prematurely, or surrendering discernment.

We forgive with wisdom and guidance from the Holy Spirit. He shall direct thy path.

A Simple Practice

Bring one person or situation gently to mind. Name the facts; then notice fear's conclusion about identity or the future. Ask, “Holy Spirit, what would You have me see and do?” A loving feeling need not be forced. In loving kindness take the next step with God's blessing.

God, let Christ use my eyes today. Help me see clearly, protect life wisely, and recognize the holy worth You placed in every soul. Let Your Love guide what I see, say, and do.

Scripture for Reflection · KJV

ScriptureWords for Reflection
Matthew 6:22“If therefore thine eye be single, thy whole body shall be full of light.”
John 7:24“Judge not according to appearance, but judge righteous judgment.”
1 Samuel 16:7“The LORD looketh on the heart.”
2 Corinthians 5:7“We walk by faith, not by sight.”
1 John 4:21“He who loveth God love his brother also.”

Today I receive Christ's vision. I will see clearly, protect life, acting in wisdom and spiritual discernment and recognize the God-created worth of everyone.

Dr. Tom
Dr. Tom
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A Course in Miracles · Lesson 294

My Body Is a Wholly Neutral Thing

A gentle reflection for trauma care and spiritual growth

The body can carry wounds; it cannot become the BEing of who you are.

Today's Teaching

Lesson 294 separates the God-created Self from the body. The body is neither holy nor sinful, neither savior nor enemy; it is simply a tool, neutral as a knife—it can cut or kill—what matters is which teacher is using it. It can serve fear or Love. God did not create the mortal and corruptible body as our Identity. The ego makes the body to be a proof of separation—something that gets sick, ages, suffers and dies. It says, “See, you really are alone here.” The ego teaches us to seek salvation outside ourselves—in another person, a perfected body, a treatment, an achievement, or some external rescuer—while using the body's vulnerability as evidence that separation is real.

When the Holy Spirit holds the body's purpose, it becomes a means of communication of love and forgiveness—a way to extend spiritual fruit into the world for the blessing of future generations. When the ego holds it, it becomes a source of fear and guilt. The body hasn't changed; only the teacher has. In ↑BEing Healing, forgiveness is spiritual recognition: honoring bodily experience without allowing appearance, injury, diagnosis, ability, age, or death to define the soul.

The body may change; Being remains in God.

For the Wounded Heart

After trauma, the body may hurt, protect, freeze, fatigue, or lose function. Neutrality does not mean symptoms are imaginary, the body is unimportant, or anyone caused a condition by thinking wrongly. It removes moral judgment from the body so care can be practical and compassionate.

A Simple Practice

Notice one bodily sensation without calling it good or bad: pressure, warmth, ache, or numbness. Say, “This is an experience in my body, not the measure of my soul.” Can you look at your body today—its pain, its limits, its appearance—without making any of that mean something about who you are? Let it be a neutral thing in the hands of a loving Teacher. Ask, “Holy Spirit, use this body for truth and healing today.”

God, I am Your Child, not a body. Help me care for this neutral instrument without worshiping, shaming, or fearing it. Use my head, hands and heart to be a blessing and to extend Your Love.

Scripture for Reflection · KJV

ScriptureWords for Reflection
1 Corinthians 6:19“Your body is the temple of the Holy Ghost which is in you.”
1 Samuel 16:7“The LORD looketh on the heart.”
2 Corinthians 4:16“The inward man is renewed day by day.”
Romans 12:1“Present your bodies a living sacrifice, holy, acceptable unto God.”
1 John 4:21“He who loveth God love his brother also.”
Dr. Tom
Dr. Tom
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A Course in Miracles · Lesson 293

All Fear Is Past and Only Love Is Here

A gentle reflection for trauma care and spiritual growth

Fear can affect awareness and the body; it cannot alter the Christ in you.

Today's Teaching

Lesson 293 asks us to recognize that fear belongs to the past because its imagined source—separation from God—has no reality in God's eternal present. Fear may echo through thoughts, memories, and bodily alarms, but fear is really just a memory program we learned to replay over and over.

Love remains our true eternal state because God, its Source, is here forever. This was always true—we just need re-minding. The Holy Spirit helps us look beneath fear's forms and see a forgiven world. In ↑BEing Healing, forgiveness is spiritual recognition: fear can affect perception without becoming identity.

The body can remember fear; the Christ in you was never touched by it.

For the Wounded Heart

After trauma, the nervous system may react as though danger remains. We take solace in knowing that love is not something we have to earn or wait for; it is with us all the time—there is no need to drag in the past.

A Simple Practice

Ask yourself, “Is there actually anything threatening in this very moment, or is what feels threatening a thought about something past or future?” If you notice a fear response: “This is an alarm, not my whole Identity.” Ask, “What does Love make possible now?” Answer: Healing.

God, help me hear Love beneath fear. Care for every wounded body and mind, guide my path and restore my awareness that every soul remains held in You.

Scripture for Reflection · KJV

ScriptureWords for Reflection
1 John 4:18“Perfect love casteth out fear.”
2 Timothy 1:7“God hath not given us the spirit of fear … but of love.”
Isaiah 43:1“Fear not: for I have redeemed thee … thou art mine.”
Psalm 56:3“What time I am afraid, I will trust in thee.”
1 John 4:21“He who loveth God love his brother also.”

I remember that Love is here. I will protect life, guide with care and compassion and honor every soul's God-created worth.

Dr. Tom
Dr. Tom
↑BEing Healing · Your state of being is the key to your healing.
A Course in Miracles · Lesson 292

A Happy Outcome to All Things Is Sure

A gentle reflection for trauma care and spiritual growth

The wound is not called good; it is denied the power to become the final author of our Being.

Today's Teaching

Lesson 292 rests in God's promise that joy is the final outcome of everything. This is not a guarantee that every circumstance will unfold as the ego prefers, or that loss and pain will disappear on demand. The ego lives in uncertainty—it is always scanning for what might go wrong, always braced for loss. But in reality, nothing can defeat God's Will, separate Creation from its Source, or corrupt the Identity Love created in you. The Holy Spirit can use every experience to undo fear's belief in separation and lead awareness home.

In ↑BEing Healing, forgiveness is spiritual recognition: the present chapter is not the final verdict, because the God-created Self remains held within Love's sure outcome.

For the Wounded Heart

After trauma, promises of a happy outcome can sound cruel when they are used to assuage grief, explain away suffering, or predict a particular recovery. This is not the ego's version of happy, not things working out exactly as you planned—it is much more telling and certain. It is the spiritual recognition that what is real cannot be harmed and what is unreal has no eternal power.

In your REAL ↑BEing you can never be threatened or harmed because you transcend it.

The apostle Paul says, “O death, where is thy sting? O grave, where is thy victory?” (1 Corinthians 15:55). The answer he implies is nowhere—we are like Christ, raised, resurrected and ascended. Death and the grave can't hold us—God does.

A Simple Practice

The practice is to bring whatever feels uncertain to that quiet trust. Not to pretend the difficulty isn't there, but to hold it differently—as something already held by a love that knows its end.

Father, hold what I cannot resolve. Guide my care, boundaries, truth-telling, and pursuit of justice. Help me trust that fear cannot overturn Your Will or remove any soul from Love.

Scripture for Reflection · KJV

ScriptureWords for Reflection
Romans 8:28“All things work together for good to them that love God.”
Psalm 30:5“Weeping may endure for a night, but joy cometh in the morning.”
Psalm 138:8“The LORD will perfect that which concerneth me.”
Romans 8:39“[Nothing] shall be able to separate us from the love of God.”
1 John 4:21“He who loveth God love his brother also.”

Today I trust Love's final outcome. I will accept facts, receive care, protect life and remember that no wound can separate any soul from God.

Dr. Tom
Dr. Tom
↑BEing Healing · Your state of being is the key to your healing.
A Course in Miracles · Lesson 291

This Is a Day of Stillness and of Peace

A gentle reflection for trauma care and spiritual growth

Stillness is not the absence of honest action; it is the presence of God guiding the action.

Today's Teaching

Lesson 291 invites Christ's vision to look through us and show all things forgiven and at peace. Stillness does not require an empty schedule, a silent mind, or a perfectly calm body.

It is the quiet center Spirit inhabits where fear no longer controls interpretation. Christ's vision recognizes the holiness we share with God and every soul. In ↑BEing Healing, forgiveness is spiritual recognition: seeing beneath injury, harmful behavior, and the appearance of separation to the Being God created, while meeting present reality truthfully.

For the Wounded Heart

After trauma, silence may feel unsafe, and hypervigilance, numbness, or intrusive thoughts are not spiritual failures. Solitude is both a fruit of the spirit and a spiritual discipline. Stillness may begin as one supported pause in which the body is allowed to remain exactly as it is. It is not a feeling you manufacture but what is already there when you stop filling the moment and the body with judgments, grievances and planning.

Stillness does not silence the wounded heart; it makes room for truth to be heard without fear becoming the final voice.

A Simple Practice

Notice where your body is supported. If comfortable, soften one breath; otherwise simply look around. Say, “God is here, and I do not have to solve everything in this moment.” Ask: What is true now? Listen without forcing an answer. Say, “God is not threatened by anything and I take solace with Him.”

God, quiet fear's interpretation and let Christ's vision guide me. Help me tell the truth, protect life, receive care, and recognize the holiness You placed in every soul.

Scripture for Reflection · KJV

ScriptureWords for Reflection
Psalm 46:10“Be still, and know that I am God.”
John 14:27“Peace I leave with you, my peace I give unto you.”
Isaiah 30:15“In quietness and in confidence shall be your strength.”
Philippians 4:7“The peace of God … shall keep your hearts and minds through Christ Jesus.”
1 John 4:21“He who loveth God love his brother also.”

Today I receive God's stillness and peace. I will listen deeply, act truthfully, protect life, and remember the holiness God shares with every soul.

Dr. Tom
Dr. Tom
↑BEing Healing · Your state of being is the key to your healing.
A Course in Miracles · Lesson 290

My Present Happiness Is All I See

A gentle reflection for trauma care and spiritual growth

Present happiness is not a command to feel good; it is permission to notice that God's Love is here now.

Today's Teaching

Lesson 290 asks us to let the Holy Spirit correct the sight fear has taught us. It does not ask our eyes to overlook pain or the mind to manufacture a pleasant feeling.

Past guilt and future fear can fill awareness with illusions, the ego's home, hiding the Love God gives now. The present moment is where peace lives if we receive it. Christ's vision looks beneath changing conditions to the God-created Being that remains whole. In ↑BEing Healing, forgiveness is spiritual recognition: fear's interpretation is not final, and our capacity to receive Love has not been destroyed.

For the Wounded Heart

Trauma may keep the body scanning for danger and thoughts are racing making us feel anxious and restless, and peace, love and joy distant. This is not spiritual failure. Present happiness may begin as one easy breath, sunlight, rest, a truthful conversation, or freedom to choose the next step.

A wounded heart may not feel joyful yet; even a moment of safety can be the doorway through which happiness returns.

A Simple Practice

Gently orient to this moment. Name three neutral or comforting things you notice, one available support, and one choice that is yours today. Say, “This moment is not the whole past. God's Love is here with me now.” Ask the Holy Spirit for the next safe and loving step.

God, let me receive Your happiness without denying what hurts. Help me accept care, protect life, keep wise boundaries and recognize Your light in every soul.

Scripture for Reflection · KJV

ScriptureWords for Reflection
Psalm 118:24“This is the day which the LORD hath made.”
Psalm 16:11“In thy presence is fulness of joy.”
John 15:11“That my joy might remain in you, and that your joy might be full.”
Philippians 4:8“Whatsoever things are true … just … pure … lovely … think on these things.”
1 John 4:21“He who loveth God love his brother also.”

Today I receive God's happiness now. I will respect pain, protect life, welcome Love, and remember every soul's God-created worth.

Dr. Tom
Dr. Tom
↑BEing Healing · Your state of being is the key to your healing.
A Course in Miracles · Lesson 289

The Past Is Over. It Can Touch Me Not

A gentle reflection for trauma care and spiritual growth

The past may leave effects that deserve care; it cannot rewrite the Being God created.

Today's Teaching

Lesson 289 asks us to stop looking at the present only through the past. An event can be over in time while the mind, body, and nervous system continue to carry its effects. The ego lives by rehearsing the past and projecting it into the future.

The miracle is that the past is not just finished—it is unreal. The residual effects are not part of our eternal identity. The Christ in you was never touched by any of it. Forgiveness allows the Holy Spirit to separate what happened from fear's conclusions about God, ourselves, others, and the future. In ↑BEing Healing, spiritual recognition remembers: the body can be wounded without Being becoming wounded. God's present Love remains untouched.

For the Wounded Heart

Trauma may return through pain, grief, flashbacks, triggers, or protective body alarms. This is not spiritual failure, and “the past is over” must never be used to blame or silence a survivor. History may still require time, treatment, accommodations, and protection. We may document or report wrongdoing, maintain distance, and seek accountability while refusing to let the wound become the final authority over any soul.

The miracle is that the past is not just finished—it is unreal and not our eternal identity.

A Simple Practice

Ask the Holy Spirit to let this day begin without the weight of yesterday. “That happened then. I am here now. My body may remember; my Being remains in God.”

God, help me meet the past with truth and the present with Your Love. Care for every wound, guide every boundary, and restore my awareness that no event can separate any soul from You.

Scripture for Reflection · KJV

ScriptureWords for Reflection
Isaiah 43:18–19“Remember ye not the former things … Behold, I will do a new thing.”
2 Corinthians 5:17“Old things are passed away; behold, all things are become new.”
Psalm 147:3“He healeth the broken in heart, and bindeth up their wounds.”
Lamentations 3:23“They are new every morning: great is thy faithfulness.”
1 John 4:21“He who loveth God love his brother also.”

Today I live in God's present Love. “Every dark lesson that you bring to God who teaches light He will accept from you” (T-14.XII.4). I exchange grievance for the peace of God.

Dr. Tom
Dr. Tom
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A Course in Miracles · Lesson 288

Let Me Forget My Brother's Past Today

A gentle reflection for trauma care and spiritual growth

Forgiveness does not erase the record of harm; it releases the past from becoming anyone's final identity.

Today's Teaching

Lesson 288 asks us to forget our brother's past—not by overlooking, but by seeing them with new spiritual eyes as they are right now in this holy instant—rather than through the filter of everything they once did. We release the ego's use of history as a prison and identity.

We cannot return to God while condemning another soul as permanently separate from Him. What happened may remain historically, clinically, or legally relevant, yet it is not metaphysically final. In ↑BEing Healing, forgiveness is spiritual recognition: seeing through deeds, wounds, and the autobiographical image to the God-created Being that remains joined with us in one Source.

For the Wounded Heart

When we hold someone's past against them, we are not really seeing them—we are seeing a story we made up, and then mistaking the story for the person. Forgiveness is not overlooking something real; it is recognizing that what we thought we saw was never the truth of who they are. Their past, and ours, is a projection the mind has rehearsed. Only what God created remains, and that is unchanged, regardless of what you think should happen. God's will is Being done.

The invitation is to let the past inform wise discernment without allowing it to define the eternal worth of the harmed person—or the person who caused harm.

A Simple Practice

Choose one person—including yourself—whom the mind has reduced to a past event. Write two lines: “What happened and what safety requires” and “What remains true in God.” Name the facts and needed boundary without softening them. Then add: “This event is not the whole Being.” Ask the Holy Spirit to help you hold truth and Love together.

God, help me remember wisely without imprisoning any soul in the past. Let truth protect life and Christ's vision reveal the holiness You have never withdrawn.

Scripture for Reflection · KJV

ScriptureWords for Reflection
Philippians 3:13“Forgetting those things which are behind … I press toward the mark.”
2 Corinthians 5:17“Old things are passed away; behold, all things are become new.”
John 8:11“Neither do I condemn thee: go, and sin no more.”
Ephesians 4:32“Forgiving one another, even as God for Christ's sake hath forgiven you.”
1 John 4:21“He who loveth God love his brother also.”
Dr. Tom
Dr. Tom
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A Course in Miracles · Lesson 287

You Are My Goal, My Father. Only You

A gentle reflection for trauma care and spiritual growth

When God is the goal, every true step leads toward Love, truth, and the wholeness no wound can take away.

Today's Teaching

Lesson 287 asks us to let God be our one true goal. The ego offers substitutes—control, approval, vindication, possessions, comfort, or some level of stability—and asks them to provide the Identity and lasting peace they cannot give. Every goal you have placed outside of God has or will disappoint you in the end.

We look for peace and try to carve it out in our lives but nothing in the world actually delivers it with certainty. Christ whispers, “Where would I go but Heaven?” and points us back to our Source, where the Self already abides in Love. In ↑BEing Healing, forgiveness is spiritual recognition: releasing false substitutes and remembering that our deepest treasure is the God-created Being we share with every soul. We have a treasure in Heaven that is eternal.

For the Wounded Heart

Trauma can make safety, control, relief, and justice feel urgently necessary—and these needs matter. Making God our goal does not mean abandoning practical care. Treatment and support are for your comfort and protection during the healing process. However, there is no quick fix or magical cure that can make a wound disappear. Comfort should not be the goal. Healing is the goal.

What replaces those contrived therapeutic goals is not emptiness — it is God Himself — which is the only thing that could ever heal you because it is what you are made of.

God's healing power is always on — it's just that we fail to perceive it — we are distracted by the other goals, the magic tricks, the pills and the potions, thinking that is where healing is. These lesser goals are not evil, but they cannot deliver what you have come to believe they promise.

A Simple Practice

Name one goal pressing on you today: to be believed, regain control, stop pain, or be vindicated. Ask, “What am I hoping this will give me?” Then pray: “God, be my goal within this goal.” Listen for the next step that serves you in Love, safety, and healing. You may keep the practical goal while releasing the demand that it define your worth or complete your Being.

Father, You are my goal. Reorder every lesser aim within Your Love. Lead me toward light and truth, and recognition of every soul as Your creation.

Scripture for Reflection · KJV

ScriptureWords for Reflection
Matthew 6:33“Seek ye first the kingdom of God, and his righteousness.”
Psalm 73:25“Whom have I in heaven but thee?”
Proverbs 3:6“In all thy ways acknowledge him, and he shall direct thy paths.”
John 14:6“I am the way, the truth, and the life.”
Matthew 6:21“For where your treasure is, there will be your heart also.”
Dr. Tom
Dr. Tom
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A Course in Miracles · Lesson 286

The Hush of Heaven Holds My Heart Today

A gentle reflection for trauma care and spiritual growth

The hush of Heaven is not forced silence; it is the quiet beneath fear where God's Love is already present.

Today's Teaching

Lesson 286 invites us to release egoic striving and receive the peace already given in God. “There is no need that I do anything” does not mean neglecting life; it means God's Love, our worth, and our true Identity do not have to be earned or constructed.

In ↑BEing Healing, forgiveness is spiritual recognition: beneath fear and the autobiographical story, the soul remains quiet in God, where conflict is resolved in our awareness of God's presence and the truth of our shared Being.

For the Wounded Heart

After trauma, silence may resemble danger, freezing, shutdown, or dissociation. Vigilance is not a spiritual failure. Stillness must be invitational and safe: eyes open, feet grounded, and support nearby if needed. Heaven's hush invites us to be held by God today, rather than holding on to everything yourself. God's quiet can steady the heart for wise protection and courageous action.

Stillness does not ask the wounded heart to disappear; it gives the heart a safe place to be held.

A Simple Practice

Name three things that tell you where you are now. Feel your feet or another point of support. Say: “God's Love is here. I do not have to solve everything in this moment.” Rest briefly, with eyes open if you prefer. Ask the Holy Spirit, “What is the next loving and truthful step?”

God, let the hush of Heaven hold my heart. Quiet what fear has taught without silencing truth. Let Your peace guide me toward care, wise boundaries and love and forgiveness for every soul.

Scripture for Reflection · KJV

ScriptureWords for Reflection
Psalm 46:10“Be still, and know that I am God.”
Philippians 4:7“The peace of God … shall keep your hearts and minds through Christ Jesus.”
Isaiah 30:15“In quietness and in confidence shall be your strength.”
Mark 4:39“Peace, be still.”
1 John 4:21“He who loveth God love his brother also.”

Today I receive the hush of Heaven. I will not confuse stillness with passivity; from God's peace I will protect life, speak truth, keep wise boundaries, and recognize every soul as held in Love.

Dr. Tom
Dr. Tom
↑BEing Healing · Your state of being is the key to your healing.
A Course in Miracles · Lesson 285

My Holiness Shines Bright and Clear Today

A gentle reflection for trauma care and spiritual growth

Holiness is not perfection we perform; it is God's light that fear cannot extinguish.

Today's Teaching

Lesson 285 asks us to welcome the joyous gifts of God by accepting the holiness we share with Him. Holiness is not moral superiority, flawless behavior, or a reward for suffering. It is our God-created Identity beneath the image assembled from what fear has told you, what the ego has argued for, what your religious self-righteousness has proclaimed.

We no longer need pain to punish us or prove our worth. In ↑BEing Healing, forgiveness is spiritual recognition: seeing through the autobiographical image to the light God placed in every soul. This holiness might be pictured as a body of light—not another physical or supernatural body, but a symbol of the living light of God within us. That light remains unchanged by anything we have done, thought, or feared.

For the Wounded Heart

Trauma can make shame, fear, grief, or anger feel like evidence that our light is gone. These responses may need time, care, and compassionate support; they do not cancel holiness. Expecting God's goodness does not require forced acceptance, denial, or blaming anyone for slow healing. God's light can guide firm protection without hatred.

The wound may darken the story you tell about yourself; it cannot extinguish the light that God authored in your Being.

A Simple Practice

Notice one thought of shame or unworthiness. Place a hand where your body feels supported and say: “This feeling is present, and God's light in me remains.” Ask the Holy Spirit to reveal how to release it. Sit with the scriptures below and remember that the same God-created light remains in every soul.

God, my holiness is Yours. Let Your light restore my perception to see with loving eyes what I have experienced. Help me protect life, welcome healing, and recognize the holiness You gave equally to all Your children.

Scripture for Reflection · KJV

ScriptureWords for Reflection
Matthew 5:16“Let your light so shine before men.”
Ephesians 5:8“Now are ye light in the Lord: walk as children of light.”
Psalm 34:5“They looked unto him, and were lightened: and their faces were not ashamed.”
1 Peter 2:9“Who hath called you out of darkness into his marvellous light.”
1 John 4:21“He who loveth God love his brother also.”

Today God's light shines through me. I will honor my experience, receive needed care and recognize the God-created holiness of every soul.

Dr. Tom
Dr. Tom
↑BEing Healing · Your state of being is the key to your healing.
A Course in Miracles · Lesson 284

I Can Elect to Change All Thoughts That Hurt

A gentle reflection for trauma care and spiritual growth

The ego's apparent control of thought is learned, not sovereign; the Holy Spirit restores our freedom to choose how experience will be interpreted.

Today's Teaching

The heart of it is this: you are not a victim of your thoughts. Over your lifetime many thoughts have entered your mind — some were entertained and trained — some became strong beliefs. The ego assumed your thought control. Now the Holy Spirit is present in your awareness. A new creation awaits and your destiny depends on your willingness to see differently.

The thoughts that caused you pain were not the objective truth; they were merely choices the mind made, and what was chosen can be unchosen. Now, allow the Spirit of God to question meanings that keep pain, grief, and loss enthroned in the mind. It describes a patient movement: speaking the truth, repeating it through our reservations, and gradually accepting it more deeply. Electing a different thought does not pretend an event never happened. It lets the Holy Spirit reinterpret what the event says about God, ourselves, others, and the future. In ↑BEing Healing, forgiveness is spiritual recognition: fear's conclusion is not final, because the God-created soul remains held in Love.

For the Wounded Heart

Trauma can produce thoughts and body alarms that arise before conscious choice. Physical pain, grief, disability, and nervous-system distress deserve compassionate care.

Choice may begin by noticing: “This is a fear-based interpretation, not the whole truth.”

We have God-given freedom to change the meanings we accept as true. As those meanings change, emotions and nervous-system responses can gradually change with them. This is not “trying harder,” suppressing feelings, or blaming ourselves for symptoms.

A Simple Practice

The prayer that goes with it is an act of trust: you are not asking God to fix the world; you are asking to be shown that the world you see was made from thoughts you can release. The Holy Spirit is not waiting for the world to change before healing can begin. He is revealing to you how to change — healing your thoughts — then your perception of the world changes.

Scripture for Reflection · KJV

ScriptureWords for Reflection
Romans 12:2“Be ye transformed by the renewing of your mind.”
Psalm 139:23“Search me, O God, and know my heart: try me, and know my thoughts.”
2 Corinthians 10:5“Bringing into captivity every thought to the obedience of Christ.”
Isaiah 26:3“Thou wilt keep him in perfect peace, whose mind is stayed on thee.”
1 John 4:21“He who loveth God love his brother also.”

Today I choose the Voice of Love. I will name harm truthfully, receive needed care, protect life, releasing every thought that makes fear the author of anyone's identity.

Dr. Tom
Dr. Tom
↑BEing Healing · Your state of being is the key to your healing.
A Course in Miracles · Lesson 283

My True Identity Abides in You

A gentle reflection for trauma care and spiritual growth

Your history can describe what happened; it cannot tell God who you are.

Today's Teaching

When I was in High School, I was assigned to write a paper proving either God exists; or, God does not exist. I don't recall what I wrote at that time, but now I would answer with one word: Impossible—not because God is impossible, but because proving or disproving the Source from within Creation is impossible. It is like the Model T trying to explain Henry Ford.

The ego begins with the impossible belief that we can exist apart from God—and therefore apart from Love, Spirit, Light, Truth, and the wholeness of Creation. From that belief, the ego constructs an image: a separate bodily and autobiographical identity, and calls that image “you.”

When our awareness forgets the Spirit of God animating the soul, the ego has no choice but to make an image — the substitute self — the picture of who you are that was built out of these erroneous beliefs in separation from God. This is your autobiographical self. It is your story that you are making separate from God's will. It is the ego's work product: the false identity you have been walking around in, the false self that seems to have a history, a body, a story of its own.

The false self we have been worrying about, explaining and defending is a fiction. We assemble a self from body, diagnosis, roles, achievements, failures, shame, and other people's judgments.

The True Self was never made by the ego. It was created by God, never separated from its Source, and never became the image that fear constructed. It does not need to be rescued. It remains whole and untouched. It is simply there, in God.

The image is the dream-figure.
Your Identity is the dreamer — and beyond that, the one who never dreamed at all.

“The ego is quite literally a fearful thought” (T-5.VI.3). And the image is what that thought looks like when it tries to become a self.

The ego is the belief in separation; the image is separation given a body, history, personality, and name.

The Course is not saying that we truly became separated from God. It is saying that we believed separation occurred and then constructed an identity consistent with that belief. The image seems divided from God, other people, and Creation, but the true Self remains united with its Source.

The ego is the belief that I exist apart from God. The image is the substitute self that belief constructed and taught me to call “me.”

Our true Identity abides in God, our Source. Identity is ontological before it is autobiographical: what we are in God comes before what happened to us.

From God's viewpoint, the autobiographical self tells the story of what happened within separation. The ontological Self reveals what remains eternally true in the indivisible Being of God.

In ↑BEing Healing, forgiveness is spiritual recognition—seeing through the constructed image to the God-created soul in everyone.

For the Wounded Heart

Trauma can narrow identity to the wound. It becomes all we think about. It becomes a false self. We identify with victim, patient, disabled, guilty, or hopefully and eventually survivor. Even “survivor” is not our deepest Identity. Even that pales to who you really are. Such words may describe experience or guide care, but none contains the whole person. History remains real within time, and its effects may require care and protection, and healing may be painfully slow. Yet history cannot redefine our timeless Being. We can recognize what God ordained for our identity—wholeness, holiness, and union with Love—while allowing even painful experiences to become places of learning and spiritual recognition.

The wound may influence the story you tell about yourself, but it does not become the author of your Being. When the wound is brought into Love, even the scar can glorify the Author.

A Simple Practice

Write three names or roles you carry: injured, caregiver, successful, rejected, or strong. Ask: Does this describe an experience, or my whole Being? Place each beside this truth: “I am the one God loves, and my life abides in Him.”

God, release me from every image fear has made. Help me honor my experience without being confined by it. Guide me toward care, love and truth as I remember that every soul receives its deepest Identity from You.

Scripture for Reflection · KJV

ScriptureWords for Reflection
Acts 17:28“In him we live, and move, and have our being.”
Colossians 3:3“Your life is hid with Christ in God.”
Genesis 1:27“God created man in his own image.”
2 Corinthians 5:17“If any man be in Christ, he is a new creature.”
1 John 4:21“He who loveth God love his brother also.”

Today I remember who I am in God. I will honor my experience keeping God foremost in my awareness so that in each moment I trust He shall provide the resources I need.

Dr. Tom
Dr. Tom
↑BEing Healing · Your state of being is the key to your healing.
A Course in Miracles · Lesson 282

I Will Not Be Afraid of Love Today

A gentle reflection for trauma care and spiritual growth

Love does not ask us to deny danger; Love teaches that danger is not everywhere.

Today's Teaching

Lesson 282 asks us to accept ourselves as God Himself, my Father and my Source, created me. Father, Your Name is Love and so is mine. Such is the truth. The name of fear is simply a mistake. Let me not be afraid of God who is Love, proclaiming that overarching truth today.

The fear of Love runs deep in our psyche. We learned that fear in early childhood. The ego constructed a “self” on the belief that we are separated from God, lesser in being and guilty in his sight. Love — real Love, the kind that sees us wholly and without condition — would dissolve all of the little egoic constructs against God. To be fully loved and perceived would mean the selfish ego we have been defending simply isn't needed anymore.

Most of us learned love as something conditional — earned when we performed deservedly and withdrawn when we did not. The teaching that God loves you unconditionally is of course foolishness to the ego who says, “How can you trust God?” It looks like a trap. Trust God who is Love and find out. You have walked the ways of the world, now try God's way. Let Him direct your path to love and freedom.

For the Wounded Heart

Feeling afraid of love after trauma is not a moral or spiritual failure. It may be a learned survival response deserving patience and skilled care. We may recognize God-created worth from a safe distance; trust, if appropriate, must be earned through consistent action.

A Simple Practice

The practice of this lesson isn't to force yourself to feel safe. It's just the willingness to question the fear. Ask: “Because of what happened, love sometimes feels like ______.” Without judgment, ask: Does this describe God's Love or fear's lesson? Let perfect Love cast out fear in your heart.

Father, Your Name is Love. Help me separate Your Love from fear, coercion, and harm. Guide me toward safe care, truthful boundaries and support while I remember the God-created worth of every soul.

Scripture for Reflection · KJV

ScriptureWords for Reflection
1 John 4:8“God is love.”
1 John 4:18“Perfect love casteth out fear.”
1 Corinthians 13:4“Charity suffereth long, and is kind.”
2 Timothy 1:7“God hath not given us the spirit of fear; but of power, and of love.”
1 John 4:21“He who loveth God love his brother also.”

Today I will not call fear love or love fear. I will welcome safe care, protect life, honor wise boundaries, and remember: God is Love, and every soul belongs to Him.

Dr. Tom
Dr. Tom
↑BEing Healing · Your state of being is the key to your healing.
A Course in Miracles · Lesson 281

I Can Be Hurt by Nothing but My Thoughts

A gentle reflection for trauma care and spiritual growth

A painful thought can shape perception; it cannot rewrite what God created.

Today's Teaching

Lesson 281 contrasts the perfect Self God created with the fearful thoughts that make pain our identity. Fear may say, “I am damaged forever, guilty, alone, powerless, or unsafe everywhere.” Such thoughts can organize perception and repeatedly bring the wound into the present. Yet they cannot enter or alter the soul.

In ↑BEing Healing, forgiveness is spiritual recognition: noticing a fearful interpretation without making it the throne of the mind, then allowing the Holy Spirit to restore the truth of our wholeness in God. The world cannot touch the part of you that is real — BEING. Injuries land, people disappoint, loss arrives — and the mind's interpretation of those things is where suffering actually lives. The event and the meaning we give it are two different things. We alone have a choice about the meaning we give the events that we experience.

For the Wounded Heart

This lesson does not mean that your thoughts caused an accident, assault, illness, or another person's choices. Bodies can be injured, and trauma can condition the brain and nervous system. Intrusive thoughts and vigilance are survival responses, not moral failures. Healing is not forced positivity.

The body can be wounded; Being cannot be wounded; a thought can revisit the wound without becoming the truth.

A Simple Practice

When a thought hurts, ground before challenging it: feel your feet, notice your breath, and name where you are now. Write four lines: What happened? What do I feel? What does fear say this means about me? What does Love say remains true?

God, help me separate what happened from what fear says I am. Guide my thoughts toward truth without denying pain. Let me receive care, protect life and keep wise boundaries and recognize the God-created worth of every soul.

Scripture for Reflection · KJV

ScriptureWords for Reflection
Romans 12:2“Be ye transformed by the renewing of your mind.”
2 Corinthians 10:5“Bringing into captivity every thought to the obedience of Christ.”
Isaiah 26:3“Thou wilt keep him in perfect peace, whose mind is stayed on thee.”
Philippians 4:8“Whatsoever things are true … think on these things.”
1 John 4:21“He who loveth God love his brother also.”

Today I will not turn pain into identity. I will honor the wound, question fear's conclusions and choose the Holy Spirit and he will guide me letting God's Love glorify what remains whole.

Dr. Tom
Dr. Tom
↑BEing Healing · Your state of being is the key to your healing.
A Course in Miracles · Lesson 280

What Limits Can I Lay Upon God's Child?

A gentle reflection for trauma care and spiritual growth

Limits may describe a circumstance; they do not define a soul.

Today's Teaching

Lesson 280 asks us to question every limit fear places upon God's Child. The ego reduces people to bodies, diagnoses, histories, failures, or sinful acts and then declares that its judgment is final. Yet what God created remains within God and cannot be cut off from Love. Because of your shared Being with God, you have ontological freedom. This does not mean unlimited physical capacity; it means that no physical limitation can become the final truth of Being. In ↑BEing Healing, forgiveness is spiritual recognition: seeing the facts clearly without confusing a condition or behavior with the whole identity. A body can be injured, a nervous system conditioned, and a life constrained, while the God-created soul remains more than every limit fear can name.

For the Wounded Heart

Trauma can bring real limits to movement, energy, attention, trust, finances, and daily life. Honoring the limitless soul does not deny those needs or shame anyone for healing slowly.

The ego paints a picture of a limited, vulnerable self with our physical body as a witness to that fact. But we have the birthright of freedom to see differently — to see with Christ's vision our freedom as a fact of Being, prior to any circumstance. The body can be wounded without Being becoming wounded.

A Simple Practice

Notice one label fear has made absolute: broken, weak, hopeless, guilty, or unlovable. Ask: What fact or risk must I respect? What judgment have I added to identity? Speak truth and Love together: “This happened and protection is needed; it does not define the soul.”

God, help me lay no fearful limits upon Your Child. Let me honor pain without making it an identity, name harm without hatred, and protect life through wise care. Teach me to love every soul as Yours, even from a safe distance.

Scripture for Reflection · KJV

ScriptureWords for Reflection
2 Corinthians 5:16“Henceforth know we no man after the flesh.”
1 Samuel 16:7“The LORD looketh on the heart.”
John 8:36“If the Son therefore shall make you free, ye shall be free indeed.”
Galatians 3:28“Ye are all one in Christ Jesus.”
1 John 4:21“He who loveth God love his brother also.”

Today I will not make a limit into an identity. I will remember: to love God is to recognize the God-created worth of myself and everyone I meet.

Dr. Tom
Dr. Tom
↑BEing Healing · Your state of being is the key to your healing.
A Course in Miracles · Lesson 279

Creation's Freedom Promises My Own

A gentle reflection for trauma care and spiritual growth

The soul does not wait for permission to be what God created.

Today's Teaching

Lesson 279 answers the fear of bondage that ego teaches with God's promise: Creation is free, so freedom is ours now. The ego says freedom must wait for pain to end, recovery, an apology, or a restitution. The lesson asks whether we will wait in chains already unlocked. Creation doesn't imprison anything. It extends, it gives, it opens up a world of possibility. In ↑BEing Healing, forgiveness is spiritual recognition: wounds can have adverse effects on body and emotions, but cannot imprison the God-created soul. Freedom is a gift, not something we have to earn. It is our birthright. It is beyond “human” and into Being. With God all things are possible.

For the Wounded Heart

After trauma, “You are free now” can sound cruel while pain, danger, disability, financial strain, or legal proceedings continue. Spiritual freedom does not simply say “Feel Better”; it understands that real relief is from our access to higher power. Recovery may unfold in time; identity in God does not wait. We can grieve, receive care, and protect life without letting the wound become our final name.

Freedom is not the absence of every limitation; it is the remembrance that no limitation owns the soul.

A Simple Practice

Name what you are waiting for before feeling free: less pain, a verdict, apology, certainty, or approval. Ask: What wise action belongs in time? What truth is already mine in God? Take the needed action, then say: “Healing may unfold in time, but my worth is not postponed.”

God, I accept Your promise of freedom. Help me honor pain without enthroning it, care for the body without becoming only a body, and pursue truth speaking it forth in love. Let me see every soul held in your grace today.

Scripture for Reflection · KJV

ScriptureWords for Reflection
Galatians 5:1“Christ hath made us free.”
John 8:36“If the Son therefore shall make you free, ye shall be free indeed.”
2 Corinthians 3:17“Where the Spirit of the Lord is, there is liberty.”
Psalm 119:45“I will walk at liberty: for I seek thy precepts.”
1 John 4:21“He who loveth God love his brother also.”

Today I accept God's gift of freedom. I will have peace in my freedom and witness my Creator: healing may unfold in time, but the soul's freedom is not postponed.

Dr. Tom
Dr. Tom
↑BEing Healing · Your state of being is the key to your healing.
A Course in Miracles · Lesson 278

If I Am Bound, My Father Is Not Free

A gentle reflection for trauma care and spiritual growth

Truth is free; the soul remains joined with God.

Today's Teaching

Lesson 278 asks us to question the belief that our true Self is imprisoned in a vulnerable body that must die and be ruled by fear and guilt while alive. If you accept this verdict – if you agree that you are guilty, limited, small and defined by your past – then you are denying what God is. Because God created you as an extension of His freedom; then limitation, guilt, injury, and the body's mortality cannot define the Self God created. God and Creation remain One; what Love creates cannot leave Love. Bodily experience matters, but it is not the final authority on identity. In ↑BEing Healing, forgiveness is spiritual recognition: releasing the claim that injury, diagnosis, shame, or behavior has imprisoned the soul. Truth is free; only Love is sure.

For the Wounded Heart

Trauma can make the body feel like a prison. Pain, disability, panic, grief, or medical limitations may be real. This lesson neither blames symptoms nor promises that insight will instantly change the body. It does not ask us to ignore treatment, evidence, accommodations, or danger. Spiritual freedom means the wound does not own the soul; wise care and boundaries express freedom.

The body can be wounded without BEing becoming wounded. No condition can imprison the Self God created. Freedom is not something to find – it is what you are beneath ego.

A Simple Practice

Notice: “I am trapped because _____.” Separate the present fact—pain, loss, responsibility, or a needed boundary—from fear's conclusion: “I am only my wound.” Do not deny the fact. Ask God, “Show me the freedom that remains.”

God, I ask for truth. Help me care for the body without mistaking it for all I am. I am sorry for the idols I have made because of the fears I have learned. Release me from fear's prison. Guide my healing, protection, and freedom in Creation. Let me see every soul free in Your Love.

Scripture for Reflection · KJV

ScriptureWords for Reflection
John 8:36“If the Son therefore shall make you free, ye shall be free indeed.”
2 Corinthians 3:17“Where the Spirit of the Lord is, there is liberty.”
Romans 8:21“The glorious liberty of the children of God.”
Acts 17:28“For in him we live, and move, and have our being.”
1 John 4:21“He who loveth God love his brother also.”

Today I choose the freedom of truth. I will protect life, keep wise boundaries and remember: no wound or deed can imprison the soul God created free.

Dr. Tom
Dr. Tom
↑BEing Healing · Your state of being is the key to your healing.
Spiritual Healing

Metaphysical Stress

Metaphysical stress is distinct from both physical and psychological stress.

Physical stress occurs when the body responds to demand, injury, or perceived danger. Muscles tighten, the heart rate may increase, stress hormones are released, and the nervous system prepares the body to respond.

Psychological stress occurs when our thoughts and emotions struggle with what has happened, what is happening, or what we fear might happen. We worry, anticipate, remember, regret, and attempt to make sense of our circumstances.

Metaphysical stress goes deeper.

It arises from the meaning we give the experience.

An injury, illness, loss, or traumatic event is no longer experienced merely as something that happened to the body or something difficult for the mind to process. It becomes interpreted as a threat to our identity, our meaning, our belonging, our relationship with God, or even to the integrity of the soul itself.

The question changes from:

“What happened to me?”

to:

“What does what happened to me mean about who I am?”

Trauma may activate all three forms of stress simultaneously. The body responds to danger. The psychological mind struggles with the experience. And at the metaphysical level, the person may begin questioning safety, purpose, identity, justice, belonging, or God.

This third dimension deserves attention because unresolved questions of meaning can continue feeding fear even after immediate physical danger has passed.

The body may be safe, yet the person does not experience safety.

The injury may be healing, yet the person does not experience wholeness.

The traumatic event may be over, yet its meaning remains alive.

Metaphysical healing therefore does not mean pretending that physical injury or psychological suffering is unreal. Nor does it replace appropriate medical or psychological care. It addresses a different question:

Have I allowed what happened to my body to redefine what I believe I am?

From the spiritual perspective, healing begins when we recognize that our deepest identity was never contained within the event and therefore could never have been damaged by it.

The body may have been injured.

The psychological mind may have been frightened.

But wholeness itself was never injured.

Metaphysical healing is the gradual release of the belief that our circumstances have the authority to determine who we are.

And as that fear loosens its hold, the body and psychological mind no longer have to carry quite the same burden.

We are not attempting to manufacture wholeness.

We are remembering the wholeness that was there all along.

Dr. Tom
Dr. Tom
Dayton Pain & Injury
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